The guy I’ve been longing for climaxes too quickly and it leaves me deflated – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: FOR three years, I fancied a colleague.

But our company – a large firm of accountants – frowned on relationships between staff.

I left a couple of months ago and at my leaving drinks I told him I’d like to stay in touch.

He’s 26 and I’m 28.

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A band we both like was playing in town so I suggested we go.

It turned into a real date.

I was thrilled and we’ve grown closer.

But when we try to have sex, he climaxes very quickly.

It leaves me a bit deflated.

Am I the problem?

DEIDRE SAYS: Reassure him that you still like him because he probably feels like a terrible failure.

Having sex a second time reasonably soon afterwards usually means the guy can last.

There are also self-help ways to ensure you both still have a satisfying time.

My e-leaflet Help Your Man Last Longer explains.

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