DEAR DEIDRE: FOR three years, I fancied a colleague.
But our company – a large firm of accountants – frowned on relationships between staff.
I left a couple of months ago and at my leaving drinks I told him I’d like to stay in touch.
He’s 26 and I’m 28.
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A band we both like was playing in town so I suggested we go.
It turned into a real date.
I was thrilled and we’ve grown closer.
But when we try to have sex, he climaxes very quickly.
It leaves me a bit deflated.
Am I the problem?
DEIDRE SAYS: Reassure him that you still like him because he probably feels like a terrible failure.
Having sex a second time reasonably soon afterwards usually means the guy can last.
There are also self-help ways to ensure you both still have a satisfying time.
My e-leaflet Help Your Man Last Longer explains.
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