{"id":79615,"date":"2023-10-07T19:13:42","date_gmt":"2023-10-07T19:13:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/posterboyedit.com\/?p=79615"},"modified":"2023-10-07T19:13:42","modified_gmt":"2023-10-07T19:13:42","slug":"i-want-to-leave-my-alcoholic-boyfriend-but-i-cant-because-we-have-booked-a-holiday-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/posterboyedit.com\/lifestyle\/i-want-to-leave-my-alcoholic-boyfriend-but-i-cant-because-we-have-booked-a-holiday-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I want to leave my alcoholic boyfriend but I can&#x27;t because we have booked a holiday | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to leave my alcoholic boyfriend but I can\u2019t because we\u2019ve booked a holiday.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m 40 and he is 45. We\u2019ve been together for five years on and off.<\/p>\n<p>We have taken many breaks due to his bad relationship with alcohol.<\/p>\n<p>Our most recent split was after I caught him making out with one of the other guests at my best friend\u2019s wedding.<\/p>\n<p>But somehow he talked me round, blaming it all on the drink.<\/p>\n<p>To be honest, I only got back with him because I\u2019d booked a holiday for us on my credit card and I know he won\u2019t repay me if I break up with him now.<\/p>\n<h3>Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n<p>Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n<p>Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n<p>You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.<\/p>\n<h2>MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/h2>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/116-JS848769918.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/116-JS848769918.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/116-JS848769918.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEAR DEIDRE <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Living with my boyfriend was a dream until I found out about his double life<\/h3>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/deidre-casebook-day7-comp-9.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/deidre-casebook-day7-comp-9.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/deidre-casebook-day7-comp-9.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEIDRE&#x27;S STORIES <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Izzy gets taste of her own medicine as new man gets the ick<\/h3>\n<p><span><strong>DEIDRE SAYS:<\/strong><\/span> On a practical level you may be able to cancel and get a refund or change the name on the booking and take a friend or relative instead so check with your travel company.<\/p>\n<p>If this man makes you so unhappy that you want to end the relationship, is it really worth going on holiday with him?<\/p>\n<p>My support pack Ending A Relationship will help you think this through.<\/p>\n<h2>Most read in Dear Deidre<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/2gj0bpn-two-young-girlfriends-bed-833170358.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>My girlfriend has shunned me after finding out about my bisexual porn star past<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/CC_-_GettyImages-125750756__3_jpg-JS850174993.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>I want my ex back but my lover has thrown a spanner in the works&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/CC_-GCAHBP__3_jpg-JS850177015.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>I feel like I\u2019m living in the shadow of my husband\u2019s first wife<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/CC_-GettyImages-1329081574__3_jpg-JS850178066.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>I feel like a failure after losing my job and moving back in with my parents<\/h3>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/dear-deidre\/24320165\/want-leave-alcoholic-booked-holiday\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to leave my alcoholic boyfriend but I can\u2019t because we\u2019ve booked a holiday. 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