A threesome is my biggest fantasy. I’m sexually confident and always up for action.
Yet, every time I offer to organise a party in our home, my partner shoots me down. She calls me disgusting and perverted.
She won’t even discuss having a drink with a local bisexual woman who has admitted to fancying us both.
How do I get her to be more adventurous?
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JANE SAYS: Stop right there. If your partner doesn’t want a threesome, respect her wishes. If she is only interested in monogamy, then leave it.
How strong are your urges? Strong enough to consider finding someone new? Edgy sex isn’t for everyone. Be careful what you wish for…
'I have secret earner'
I have a secret cleaning job. My boyfriend doesn’t know it, but every day I go round to a posh woman’s house for four hours.
I do everything from changing the beds to cleaning the chandeliers. She pays well.
He doesn’t like the idea of me seeing other people or having my own money.
He pays all the bills and I have to ask for any spending money.
I feel more secure having earnings even if I do have to stash them at my mum’s for safety.
How do I make him understand that I need some freedom when I live in fear of him catching me out?
JANE SAYS: This is a toxic relationship you have to get out of.
Financial abuse is a very serious issue. Your bully boyfriend is attempting to trap and control you.
By keeping you short of money, he holds you in his power, which is abhorrent.
You are suffering domestic abuse and must seek help from family or friends.
You are living in fear, which is plain wrong.
Contact the nationaldahelpline.org.uk (0808 2000 247) when it is safe to do so.
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