A bloke who was exposed for cheating on his pregnant girlfriend while he was a secret swinger says his religious family did not initially approve of his lifestyle.
Sebastian Wood now organises wild sex parties in London but his outlook is a complete contrast to his mum's – who recently got married so she could finally sleep with her partner.
The father, from Bognor Regis, used to manage a cafe alongside his long-term partner Dulci Mae Ball before they started running adult events together instead.
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Speaking to us about being in the lifestyle, Sebastian, 29, said: “I have always been open about it to friends and family. My mum and stepdad are very religious and they even do marriage before sex.
“We have only just been to my mum’s wedding because basically she wants to have sex. At first she was very prude about (swinging) it but now she has come over it. But we don’t talk about it at the dinner table, bearing in mind I would love to".
Laughing, Dulci added: “He would love to talk about it because he loves winding her up.” And the 31-year-old herself also talked about how her own mum and dad reacted when she told them she was ditching monogamy for an open relationship.
She said: “They were not even fazed and I have really supportive parents. You can look at it like yeah I am a swinger but I have always created a business from nothing.
“I have went from getting a few friends round to parties to getting 350 people and making quite a good living off of it so that side of things they looked at it as fantastic.”
Despite now being entrenched in the lifestyle, the mum-of-two never envisaged becoming a swinger and only did so after finding out Sebastian had been sleeping with other women behind her back.
At the time she was expecting baby number two and was unaware of her fella’s exploits – despite being suspicious of his solo trips to Amsterdam.
She met Sebastian when she was 20 and he was 18 and she thought they were both being monogamous in the early years.
But as for how she found out the truth, she said: “I was a bit young and naive and didn’t understand the concept of swinging.
“I was heavily pregnant with my second child and this is how it all came out, this was six years ago. We owned a cafe at the time and a customer came in and said he was trying to seduce someone’s wife.
"And I was like ‘what, why would he do that’? And then he came out and said he was a swinger and I was like ‘ok what is that’?”
Explaining the complex scenario, she added: “I was heavily pregnant with my second child and I was already in this. I couldn’t just walk away,” she said.
“I had two children with him and I think it just comes to the realisation that it comes to the realisation where I either have to try this because it is obviously something he is not going to give up on, he is not going to let it go. Or I am going to walk away.”
But instead of walking away, Dulci gave the lifestyle a try before eventually becoming “addicted” to it. And for the past seven years she has relished hosting sex parties with her Secret Desires company alongside Sebastian.
As for how they are now perceived by others, Sebastian concluded: “People don’t understand and they think we have the most oddest relationship but to us we don’t.
“We still love each other exactly the same as you love your missus or wife, we just go at it from a different angle.”
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